a + b = c
what you do to one side, you do to the other. so if you subtract "b"" from one side, subtract it from the other and the equation balances.
a = c - b
marvellous! mathematics! incredible stuff!

it is pretty amazing to feel loved and not know why. so often we live in an environment of equations. i love you because you do this, or because you are that. to be genuinely loved, sincerely loved, without logical reasoning is the scariest thing in th world--and the most incredible feeling.

"why do you love me? because of the work i do? because of where i'm from? because of what i mean to you? what have i done to deserve that love?" it's totally disorienting if the answers to all of these questions are NO NO NO NO and NOTHING! you're left thinking "but i don't deserve this love!" and that, is when it's the greatest love of all. no conditions. no expectations. no rational.